He is either genuinely busy, and the bombardment of texts will come across as needy and or irritating OR he is no longer interested.
If this is a guy you just started seeing…
I am wondering if he took offense to you not going to church with him. You said it was important to him and his family, so they may have had a talk with him about it.
I agree with a PP, stop texting him. If he is interested, he will contact you. I think it would be fair for him to give you an explanation though, so maybe just ask what happened. It sounds like things have fizzled. Like others have said it makes you seem unattractive, like you have nothing else to do. I met my Fiance online.
New guy…texting nonstop for 3 weeks now suddenly stopped. advice please?
What a difference to texting! I also think being in constant contact can take away something. That said, here you are. Why can call him and talk to him? Give it some space and let him contact you. He is fine so you know if he wanted to be in touch he would be. I agree with those books. Try calling one time to talk if that doesnt work move on. I've been seeing a guy for about 2 months.
He has always been really keen, telling me how much he liked me, texting to say he can't wait to see me etc. Everything was going really well until about 2 weeks ago. I went over to his on the Sunday evening and we hung out. Hadn't heard from him by Thursday, but then again I hadn't text him til then either, so I figured we were both busy had discussed our plans on the Sunday so no big deal.
If he’s not that into you, consider that a blessing in disguise…
He didn't reply until Saturday night, which is totally unlike him we would both usually reply within 20 minutes. He was by then away for a friends birthday so we sent a few texts back and forth and then I said to him to enjoy his night, because I didn't want to be bothering him while he was out with friends. He never text me when he got home, so the following Tuesday I text him and we sent a few texts back and forth again.
Haven't heard from him since then Sunday night where I am now. I don't want to text because I get the feeling he doesn't want to talk to me. I'm guessing he doesn't want to see me again, which is fine if that's how he feels, but why couldn't he just grow a pair and tell me so I don't have to spend a week wondering if I'll hear from him again!?!? Or should I just text him incase he's thinking the same thing?
Share Share this post on Digg Del. Either he is a sackless wonder that doesn't have the guts to end it or he wants to see if you'll take initiative to set up plans. Are you the type to let the man do all the heavy lifting and make plans? Originally Posted by Chr I don't want to text because I get the feeling he doesn't want to talk to me Originally Posted by jimloveslips.
Now is he thinking you're not texting him cos you don't want to talk to him? Thanks for your replies. I did say at the end should I text him incase this is what he was thinking.
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He seems to have lost interest - in my opinion. Everyone has a cell phone. And the cycle will happen all over again. If you want to avoid this eventuality, you have to stop texting this guy.
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He will never be happy. You will never be happy if you keep chasing him. From a man this hits home for me. Was seeing someone like this and had his type of relationship if you want to call it that. Anyways out of the blue stopped texting me, etc, texted him a few times with no response, was heartbroken and so confused. Your right, why am I chasing him? It is self defeating and so soul crushing, ty!!!
So I met my bests friends boyfriends best friend, we all hung out and hit it off like my best friend thought we would. He told her I was cute. We hung out again and exchanged numbers. We talked everyday since then. He told me he wants to take me fishing since its his favorite thing too and told me to text him in the morning because he wanted to wake up from a text from me. Oh my gosh this is inspiring. To know that at least some one understands this really helps me.. What can I do to make him like me again? I never said any mean word to him I begged him to tell my mistake I asked to be just a friend but he just stopped replying.
You need to relax. Let her figure it out on her own. What a wierdo…cursing and threatening. You are a pathetic male role model…. Bravo… great post JMR! Your daughter should be proud she has such a caring and honourable da. So we have been dating for 2 months. We go to different schools and berally see eachother, i think we have maybe hung out 6 times tops. It sucks because the time between hanging out is always so long and we are both really busy; me with volleyball and him with football. So the only way that we really keep the relationship going and communicate at all is by texting.
For the past week we have only sent about 40 messages to eachother… compared to the we used to send per day!! I had this thought that he was cheating on me. The last thing people have said to me is maybe he lost his phone. Would be the same way around vice versa? Back off, stop texting him….
Spend energy on making yourself happy and healthy, and stop expecting so much attention from these poor guys! I have been in contact with this guy for least half a year. Few mths ago he went overseas for his studies and got back recently. Everything was fine within that few mths, constantly contacting each other with texts.
Thought things will work out just fine. He came back recently but there was no news for him, at all. That was when I began to realize, all the waiting is worthless after all: When I date a guy who is hearing with no problems my only means is texting since i CANNOT hear on the phone, therefore makes texting my main source of communicating electronically.
So if a guy really cared, then texting me shouldnt be an issue, right? I met this guy on line. We have been going out for more than a month now. He was injured a while ago so we only saw each other three times. So except the first time, every date would last for more than five hours. But he finally convinced me to meet him and we kind of really liked each other. He texted me everyday and we emailed each other a lot.