19 year old guy dating an older woman

Go to first unread. This discussion is closed. Report Thread starter 3 years ago 1. I'm a mature undergrad student at uni. I'm constantly surrounded by younger people which I don't mind but in terms of dating I've always preferred and dated older men so I said to myself before starting uni that I would not be dating any of my peers as they would be too young for me and likewise probably not interested. I met a really lovely guy who is He is flirty but respectful with me, and always comes over to talk to me and gives me hugs his eyes just light up when he sees me.

At first he didn't realise my age and looked shocked at first when I told him that I was older but seemed cool with it and said I look really young and pretty anyway. I found myself falling for him so I avoided him as I wanted to fight it I know that's a horrible thing to do! He said he wanted to see me before we broke up for summer last term and I basically said I don't think so, but I will see you next term. Here's my fears about dating him: It caused me a lot of pain but I take responsibility for the experience and don't want to repeat history!

I want children before I turn I doubt he wants them before 27!

I know it shouldn't matter but I don't want to be seen as some lame cougar. Not only would there be the age gap to overcome but the relationship would also be interracial!!!

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What should I do? I'm really falling for him! I feel like I'm too old for crushes! Should I do something or just leave it? Did I already blow it? Report 3 years ago 2.

Chances are, being 19 and not being bothered by you being older, he's probably more mature than you give him credit for. I know couples who have been together since college and still going strong some 7 years later. Not every "late teenager" is out to get notches on the bedpost. Whatever happens with regards to the rest - take it slow. Give yourselves enough time to bond before seeing where things lead.

The reality of dating a much younger man

Report Thread starter 3 years ago 3. Original post by Danno 6 years isn't a lot in the grand scheme of things, and age differences like that won't mean as much the older you get. Report 3 years ago 4. I would love a slightly older girl personally. Get him you cougar! Report 3 years ago 5. What should you do?

This ends badly, in every scenario - and you know it. At 25, you are old enough to know better. You are simply stroking your ego by taking advantage of his naivety. Already hearing the tick-tock of the biological clock, pulling this man-child into your future family schemes is nothing short of deluded and bound to end in tears.

A platform for your racial identity games, he is a blank slate for your experimentation - and I detect how thrilled you are at the prospect but you would be better served getting advice from another person of colour to talk through your problematic ethnicity issues which they are.

Foolhardy in every respect bar none, this moment will end with your dignity in tatters, and you will deserve it if you take this road. Report Thread starter 3 years ago 6. Original post by sund1ata What should you do? I can't even Badges: Report 3 years ago 7.

I would like to find a meaningful connection that transcends all of this, but to do that I need to transcend my own insecurities so again there is a lot of lessons in all of this for me. I value how kind and respectful he has been towards me not the colour of his skin or his age. Report 3 years ago 8.

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Report 3 years ago 9. Does he live with you- like house share? When do you talk the most? Report 3 years ago Original post by Anonymous You've definitely given me something to think about: Follow 2 Follow 3 Fairplay to you, nothing wrong with dating someone older. Follow 4 Does she give you money? Follow 5 Follow 6 How does it feel knowing that there really isn't much of a future in this relationship? Is marriage even in your future scope or are you taking the "if it happens, it happens" approach? Original post by alexschmalex 1. Original post by JDieMstr How does it feel knowing that there really isn't much of a future in this relationship?

Follow 9 Follow 10 Original post by Anonymous We only meet on weekends right now, and it's too early to bring up marriage, I'd like to think it could eventually lead to marriage but right now we are just enjoying each others company. Original post by JDieMstr Welp, kudos to you buddy. Enjoy the trip, no matter where it leads.

Do you guys go to the doctors for check ups as a date? Do you call her granny as a sort of kink in bed?

Hazzer Follow 31 followers 21 badges Send a private message to Hazzer Follow 13 That's me walking out the thread. Original post by needledropp Yes, 45 is wrinkly genital category. Also no, because she's so old maybe she'd need to visit the doctors to check for cholesterol or other age related problems. Listen mate, im not sure what you wanted out of this. Your relationship frankly makes the rest of us vomit a little. Follow 15 Residence3 Follow 0 followers 3 badges Send a private message to Residence3.

Follow 16 Download from Apple or Google Play. Follow 17 Follow 18 Original post by StudyJosh don't you feel sad knowing you're one of her last options? I disagree with most of your statements. In fact I disagree with most of my family: I defend her all the time.

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She always wants me to tell her what they say- and she is always disheartened by it. But for me no! All of you, you will all know it once you find it.