Generally speaking, the difference comes from them being more accommodating to men's everyday needs except for sex as it seems , not demonstrating their strength and their ability to make men feel appreciated. However, a couple of my girl friends in Japan are open and strong and their guys love them for that. It is so exasperating to make sex the goal of love. If you love, you love and there is nothing better than love, not even sex. As M3M3M3 points out, Japanese are dating and marrying lots of foreign women. They are just mostly other Asian women.
Yubaru The hardest thing to get out of a woman is the first thing men talk about. Is that really a surprise?
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Does it count a negative toward men? Look at the flip side. If women were constantly trying to get in men's pants, I bet the men would be talking about wanting a woman who loved them. As for visiting soapland, why aren't they? Its because most men don't actually want only sex. They want a relationship too. But as my experience shows, you can get a relationship much easier than sex.
I have dated several women who wanted to give me a relationship but when it came to sex, they balked. Heck, I was even married to such a woman for a time! Basically your lament is like asking why people don't talk about water more, but are always going on and on about alcoholic beverages. I would sooner point out that Greece is resource poor and ancient.
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Then you look at America, a large country full of resources that have only been seriously tapped over the last years or so. Americans could bonk half of every day and still live high on the hog. Ah yes, because 'Japanese men' are all the same, with the same interests, wants and aspirations. It don't matter which one you pick out of the crowd, he's no different from the next one.
Equally 'foreign women' form a cohesive whole, each one indistinguishable from the next. As a 'foreign woman' I would not be interested in even talking to, never mind dating, a man of whatever nationality or ethnicity who was interested in me solely as a 'foreign woman'. Japanese women do not weaker then Western, they just do not demonstrate their strength. And that makes them attractive. Few normal men find attractive female wrestlers or "take-charge" type of women.
Woah, dont know who you have dated and why sex should even be considered as "something to get out of a woman". If all a guy wants is sex, do what I suggested in an earlier post. I know plenty of men that like strong, confident women - both Japanese and otherwise. And I'm not sure why you think it's a good thing that a strong woman should act weak for the benefit of another person? You might think it's abnormal for a man to like a strong woman, but do you not think it's abnormal that you are attracted to submissive women?
Maybe you've got the vocabulary wrong but normal men can and do appreciate the entire spectrum of personalities of women. I want my partner to be strong and independent and capable, and frankly I think men want the same. You're selling men short here. I'm not sure about these guys willing to have a long term relationship with a foreign woman, but I'll bet almost all would jump at the chance to get "romantic" on a short term basis. Another foreign woman here married for decades to a wonderful Japanese man seconding what Cleo said. So im should speaking in Japanese with him every day..
Most Japanese men I know are curious about foreign women.
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Just like all the foreign men I know, everyone thinks the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. Due to lacking grass here though, they assume the cement is better on the other side of the fence. The world will only be a better place when we've all had sex with each other and there's only one race! Some years ago I led a group of young Japanese people to a summer school on campus at a famous American university. I suggested to some of the guys in the group: And sure enough, of all the nationalities there, the Japanese guys spent the 3 weeks trying to pick up Japanese girls.
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Self-confidence is a very attractive trait, even in men regarded as not handsome. In my experience, most women like confident men and insecure men find confident women threatening. I've been drinking with single, good-looking Japanese men in their early twenties who are absolutely petrified at the idea of striking up a conversation with any woman, let alone one from a different country speaking a different language, in a bar.
I've met men who lack confidence in my own country but in Japan it is far more common and a real social disability.
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How could their confidence possibly withstand the idea that the woman might tell them to bugger off? You obviously don't have to worry about this in cabaret clubs. The ladies in there will massage your confidence all night for the right fee. Not when it borders on and certainly not when it spills over into arrogance, conceit and big-headedness.
It's a fine line. The ones who think they are God's Gift are a real turn-off. This is a false analogy.
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I'm sure most men would baulk at the thought of marrying Hippolyta, Queen of the Amazons, but on the other hand, I'd happily take an active, self-assured woman over a neurotic, borderline personality. My observations are this: Japanese men are intimidated sexually by Western women and find their strong personalities unappealing. Very rarely would you actually see a Japanese guy truly hitting on a Western woman in a club, party, etc.
Even in America, the hostess clubs are staffed by Japanese and asian women. It's like a spototng s unicorn.
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Western women even in Japan show little interest in dating Japanese men. They have neither sexual interest nor do they their persoanlities appealing. Japanese women are just as strong as Western women or much stronger. But during the dating phase, they keep this little nugget a secret.
They are much more adept at manipulation and play the attentive, subserviant role very well- But eventually their true personality reveals itself, but by then, it's too late for the poor guy to make an exit. So, because you don't see them, they don't exist? I'm on a message board for foreign women married to Japanese and there are over members.
Japan is NOT I get so tired of seeing this particular piece of misinformation being spread again, and again, and again In fact, there is no official statistic over the ethnic make-up of Japan. I would say that, after marriage and childbirth, many Japanese women become stubborn, selfish and mean.